“Hate the Sin but Love the Sinner”—The Seven Deadliest Words

I often struggled with this statement as a gay man coming to terms with his sexuality in the Presbyterian church.  It felt like there was inherent permission to hate an aspect of me that some assumed was merely a behavior…

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It is Going to Get Worse Before It Gets Better

How many times have you heard the words “it’s always darkest before the dawn”?  As someone who has struggled with depression, I have heard some variant of that phrase uttered by the most well-intentioned people as a way of entreating…

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